I have been on the internet reading so many website's relating to Domestic Violence stories. I now have the direction I need to go!! It came to me as I was going through a story about a young woman killed by the hands of her husband. It seemed to be the same story I heard over and over again. I read about so many organizations that have victim's create t-shirts and they have empowerment bracelets and such. I decided to go to the real issue..the real issue I experienced. The miscommunication and the fear of not having money to get to a safe place to become the victor.
These past few weeks have been amazing and eye opening! I now understand that with every negative action we should be able to find a positive action. Our view regarding domestic violence feels shameful, embarrassing and terrifying. I decided that my journey is taking me to empower people with the courage to take a step forward. Courage is what helped me through my journey and continues to help me succeed!
I have no reason to feel embarrassed by what happened to me. I was so ashamed because of comments I would hear people say about it. I started feeling closed off to my friends and family because of the shame I was feeling. I am so happy today because I know those feelings are washed away. I washed those feelings away and in their place I now have Love, Ambition, Courage and empowerment! I would like to share my experience and journey with everyone! I'm in a great place today and we can all use some courage!
When I think of courage I think of a Lion! I also think of the Lioness! I am a lion and a lioness when I need to be! I've come so far and I thank God for the strength and courage to continue on my journey.
I was so embarrassed and ashamed of my story. It took me 1 year and 6 months for the courage and strength to share my story. I don't want another person to face the challenges my kids and I had to face. The attack was horrific and life changing. We had to fight for protection. Changes need to be made quickly. Please read my story and share. God Bless you!
About Me
- Domestic Violence; My Journey to be the Victor
- San Diego, California, United States
- My story of how a beautiful relationship ended due to a Domestic Violence incident on April 18, 2009 in San Jose, CA at the Holiday Inn.
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- Another glorious day in the neighborhood!
- Thinking about how to help...
- I forgive him- Thank you to Tyler Perry, Oprah, Sh...
- Restraining Order fiasco! Why did I have to fight ...
- Please read from bottom up 2009 my story begins.
- Through the eyes of the victim
- My Gratitude Rock!
- A day of reflection 10/20/10
- Facts about Domestic Violence for 2010
- Sentencing Day May 30, 2009 - my question to DA & ...
- Sentencing Day May 30, 2009 (more detail)
- Another disappointment with the system......
- Police Report Type- Domestic Violence 4/18/09 2056...
- Police Report Type- Domestic Violence 4/18/09 2056...
- Sunday, April 19, 2009 My day after (First day home)
- Letter from County of Santa Clara dated April 22,...
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